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Monday, 11 July 2011

Just to re-emphasise what Pastor Akolade Arowolo, 30,had this to say as his response. ( Disclaimer: Disturbing images are contained in this note)

THIS IS A TRUE LIFE STORY! I AM GUTTED. Wrote about this here and here
Sorry I cannot read and keep silent for the fear of hurting people's sensibilities. I wrote about it last year yes, but this madness has to be blogged about till som


If I tell you that I can fully grasps what happened that day then I will be lying, but that day my wife was not the Titi I knew, she was possessed by a demon, she became stronger and wild and she stabbed me on my left hand, before I could stop her, she went on to stab me in the stomach, and all over my chest and when I tried to wrestle the knife from her I ended up being slashed on my right palm; as I was trying to get help, my wife had gone on to stab herself several times; unfortunately, she is dead and cannot talk about the incident.”

Mr Arowolo narrated how the murder incident took place. “That day was my birthday and she was on leave, she told me that we should celebrate it but I said we should have a low key birthday, just three of us, my wife started quarrelling saying that she was tired of the marriage that one of her aunties called aunty Olabisi is pressurising her to leave me; I started begging her not to leave me that day but she insisted she must leave that day; I even called a neighbour, an elderly woman to beg her; after a lot of persuasion, she went into the bedroom and as I was entering the room to see her, she jumped on me with a knife and stabbed me on the left hand, I shouted saying ‘what is the meaning of this?’ She told me that since I didn’t want her to leave, she would kill me and kill herself; I pushed her to the bed trying to wrestle the knife from her and she came back on me stronger like one possessed with a demon, she stabbed me in my stomach and slashed my wrist, she went on to stab me all over my chest before killing herself. Unknown to me, my wife had locked all the doors, and I had to jump from the building to get help, I was the one who reported the incident to the police at Ejigbo, I didn’t run away as speculated.
I loved my wife, the truth is that my wife and I quarrelled a lot and the marriage was hell, I would have divorced her but the Bible passage that says that God hates divorce kept stopping me and I also thought of my daughter; if I had known, I would have divorced her a long time ago, maybe I would not be in this mess today, my advice to young men is that they should hold on to God, they should not allow any lady or family pressure to lure them into a marriage with pregnancy and they should divorce their wives if they have irreconcilable differences in their marriages and then ask God for forgiveness; it is better that way than ending in this mess as I am, I have learnt my lessons the hard way and I know God will vindicate me, because I did not kill my wife.”

Comments by Pastor A Arowolo


Credit: Louisa Emmanuel

15 comments:

Anonymous said...

I am tired of the excuses people make for this kind of thing. He says she did this to herself? What fool believes that?

Muse Origins said...

Honestly!! I'm tired too. This is wack. He should be made a scapegoat of

Adiya
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Kemiismyrealname said...

Only God knows what went down in this marriage. I pray that others in abusive relationships (abuser and the abused) seek help before they end up in this kind of situation. Too sad.

Ibhade said...

.....& she cut her breast herself??

Lateef said...

He is a crazy liar. Everything points to him as the murderer. If she stabbed herself by herself, why did Akolade failed to be a responsible man of God by taking her wife to the hospital before she gave up the ghost? Comparing his size and that of his wife, he needs to prove to the whole world how she overpowered her. In short, he should just face the wrath of law...

9jaFOODie said...

ishhh... the guy needs a psychological evaluation, his lies don't even make sense.

Mena UkodoisReady said...

thanks all

The pastor no well. so she (the breadwinner stable enough to work at skye bank and earn a living keeping you and the family) suddenly became crazy, stabbed herself and then managed to try and remove her own heart..I can hardly bear pains from cuts while cooking but to try remove my own heart makes so much sense!!! (not!!!)

Seshe James said...

Shocking..... No words can explain how i feel....This man needs to be locked up for life...

Jenn said...

What a disturbing situation---and it ended in tragedy.

tyna said...

akolade arowolo is not just a psycopath.... he is also a horrible lair!!!

tyna said...

akolade arowolo is not just a psycopath.... he is also a horrible lair!!!

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