So I have been M.I.A. I went to India for about a month and a
half and wow the experience is very different to every single thing I am
used too. I will probably publish some of my experiences and photos
I hope you have all been very well. Any thing new? Please lets share.
By my thinking any one of us can be silently going through terrible
ordeals in our lives thinking we are alone, and believing there is no
solution, no way out, well there is a way out! All you need to do is
speak out or write anonymously, someone somewhere will respond to you.
You are never alone, certainly not in blogsville.
So I was browsing blogsville when I came across some stories. They claim
to be true life stories and the writers actually need our advice, love or just a silent prayer. I
couldnt resist but bring some of them to them to my blog so readers who
have gone though a similar experience can play agony aunt and give them
solutions. Or you can even give them some tough love as well. They will
be published from time to time in a series titled 'HELP', this is the seventh part.....You can findHelp 1
Help 3 Help 4 Help 5 and Help 6 just by a click...
"....For months I had put off going to the doctors about a lump I found in
my breast. As i walked into the
consultants room the look on the doctors face said it all.
I had been to see the very same doctor two weeks previously for a core
biopsy on a large lump in my right breast and a sample biopsy from my
lymph nodes. For some reason i was hoping everything was going to be OK
but it seemed it wasn't.
Breast Cancer" he said in a very clinical manner...... No bed side
manner at all. Everything i planned to say to him totally left my mind
and i just sat there sobbing my eyes out. The thought of not being here
for my children was the only thing i could think of. How do i tell them?
How do i tell my parents? And how the hell do i tell my partner?..I did.
Current situation: Diagnosed with breast cancer two weeks ago.....today my partner of many
years just leave me to deal with children.....but not after telling me i
deserved to get cancer....
This is Heartwrenching! I am in literally in tears