tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1437272348957455996.post5092270669859058367..comments2023-08-11T09:16:46.316-07:00Comments on Mena UkodoisReady: How to beat your wife?Mena UkodoisReadyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08395537925341263961noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1437272348957455996.post-10866780064337262142010-08-20T08:48:40.527-07:002010-08-20T08:48:40.527-07:00Mobolanle, you did what?? And your parents did too...Mobolanle, you did what?? And your parents did too???? What happens in case of "emotional beating"?<br />Plus, that is unAfrican!!!!<br />:)<br /><br />Anyway, on a more serious note, women, African women should start demanding respect from their men right from the very first day. We suffer the most in all aspects of life, so it's about time we became really assertive. Submission isAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1437272348957455996.post-1214672548339559922010-08-20T06:27:22.108-07:002010-08-20T06:27:22.108-07:00Nobody should stay in an abusive relationship. The...Nobody should stay in an abusive relationship. The first signs are when he calls you stupid often and he controls himself to avoid hitting you. One day, the control button will cease and he will beat you blue black.<br /><br />If you are not married to him flee but if you are I'd say you saw it coming. As for me, I had my lawyer prepare a document which we both signed stating that our Mobolanlehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17925890246785150708noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1437272348957455996.post-65263930678126058572010-04-16T04:15:03.897-07:002010-04-16T04:15:03.897-07:00There really is no justification for violence in a...There really is no justification for violence in a relationship. (boyfriend, Girlfriend or marriage) .My opinion is that such traits don't appear overnight, those on the receiving and must have had an inkling but ignored the signs.People should early enough in a relationship ,know what is acceptable to them, set boundaries and parameters before it is too latejoeyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07835640606681690462noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1437272348957455996.post-82942237968901029042010-04-06T00:30:08.812-07:002010-04-06T00:30:08.812-07:00Allen I agree with you as well. Just as men may ph...Allen I agree with you as well. Just as men may physically and emotionally assault women, women can also do the same.<br /><br />I think the solution is for each person to know him/herself including their tolerance level, so they can walk away from heated situation. If they dont walk away, they may be storing resentment in their minds, which will lead eventually lead to verbal bashes or physical Mena UkodoisReadyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08395537925341263961noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1437272348957455996.post-36652669641421752822010-04-06T00:24:20.392-07:002010-04-06T00:24:20.392-07:00Mamuje very good decision! I am also happy that yo...Mamuje very good decision! I am also happy that your family members were close by to support you! imagine if you were stuck in an abusive relationship in siberia? <br /><br />Every relationship has its difficluties but physical assault is hardly a solution. Better to walk away fromthe source of pain!<br /><br />Life is to be lived..Mena UkodoisReadyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08395537925341263961noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1437272348957455996.post-43060856137957327222010-04-05T07:23:32.726-07:002010-04-05T07:23:32.726-07:00It's an insecure man that beats a woman, it...It's an insecure man that beats a woman, it's a crazy woman that abuses a man...<br />Domestic abuse is just sick and has no justification...Allenhttp://ogedengbe.blogspot.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1437272348957455996.post-78320957015067431242010-04-05T02:19:48.244-07:002010-04-05T02:19:48.244-07:00I say it again and again, I was beaten once by a s...I say it again and again, I was beaten once by a spineless bastard. My family sorted him out big time. Then I hear he beats his wife now. I wish them luck, but it will never happen to me again.Mamujehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03742203895366744189noreply@blogger.com