tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1437272348957455996.post3768934889245437565..comments2023-08-11T09:16:46.316-07:00Comments on Mena UkodoisReady: YOU DESERVE TO BE SEXUALLY ASSAULTED! AGREE OR DISAGREE?Mena UkodoisReadyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08395537925341263961noreply@blogger.comBlogger29125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1437272348957455996.post-36513685768943355942011-07-04T09:23:54.674-07:002011-07-04T09:23:54.674-07:00"You deserve it. Look how you are dressed.&q..."You deserve it. Look how you are dressed." This was the comment of the Vice Principal of my Jr. High School after I reported an attempted rape by four guys. I fought and outran them. I was wearing...<br />a jean jacket over a loose t-shirt, and long, bell bottomed jeans as well as a large floppy hat. I was not infrequently mistaken for a boy at the time. None of my clothing was Summer Fey Foovayhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13245787726134060463noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1437272348957455996.post-68910559271575162792011-07-04T06:50:29.892-07:002011-07-04T06:50:29.892-07:00I am going to sound of with a DEFINITE NO!
I do...I am going to sound of with a DEFINITE NO! <br /><br />I don't care what your gender, race, creed, etc., is...sexual assault or rape, is not acceptable because both implies a crime perpetrated without consent.Jennhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07559573562599754752noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1437272348957455996.post-89641034548885771902011-04-18T18:43:10.781-07:002011-04-18T18:43:10.781-07:00No one DESERVES to be raped. I also believe that n...No one DESERVES to be raped. I also believe that nudity must be viewed in the context of the culture. I live in the US where EVERYTHING is about sex, so I teach my children modesty. When we watch a movie set in another country/culture/context ie Besouro or Sankofa I let my children see those parts and explain that the nudity is in context. It seems that women being exposed happens more often and Earth Mother Guidancehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06805381151243181799noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1437272348957455996.post-70403253208910446922011-04-18T04:56:22.585-07:002011-04-18T04:56:22.585-07:00I love your blog, the design and all. Makes me fee...I love your blog, the design and all. Makes me feel like doing more to make mine look more attractive but fact is, I doubt if I know how. Maybe you should give me some tips. The content is great as well.<br />Now, to the issue at hand. If some people give their reason or excuse for sexually assaulting a lady as she was dressed indecently, what then would be the excuse of the psychos who sexually Efua Dentaahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07056715640547276151noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1437272348957455996.post-56513422984998609132011-04-18T02:03:08.327-07:002011-04-18T02:03:08.327-07:00I just want to thank every single person for their...I just want to thank every single person for their comment.It is a delight to see that we share the same perspective so far!<br /><br />The reaction on facebook was mixed, and a section of those who agreed, said the woman is seeking attention and so deserves to be given attention.<br /><br />As far as I am concerned, those are potential rapists as no decent human being will force such a Mena UkodoisReadyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08395537925341263961noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1437272348957455996.post-52382501326167413062011-04-18T01:25:49.071-07:002011-04-18T01:25:49.071-07:00Wanted to write a long post but miss manners tells...Wanted to write a long post but miss manners tells me that a post in a comment is a big no no. That being said i think Ginger has said it far better than i could. Between ginger and surprise, you got you answer right there. Insanity, i tell you. Insanity to think otherwise. Offense intended.Miss Mhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00642334215337754706noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1437272348957455996.post-52276177936320995462011-04-17T16:09:36.281-07:002011-04-17T16:09:36.281-07:00I Disagree.
No one deserves to be assaulted.
We ...I Disagree.<br />No one deserves to be assaulted. <br /><br />We also must take responsibility for our actions.<br />Stealing is a crime but that still doesn't give me the confidence to leave my car with keys in the ignition anywhere I am. There will always be that un-balanced person that will come out of nowhere and violate my car.Think-About-Ithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04361623292147095716noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1437272348957455996.post-15784766496930811372011-04-17T11:51:58.981-07:002011-04-17T11:51:58.981-07:00No woman deserves to be sexually assaulted even if...No woman deserves to be sexually assaulted even if she decides to wear NADA..Kapish1DiDihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06756084781884360517noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1437272348957455996.post-29192820029089064522011-04-17T11:26:44.884-07:002011-04-17T11:26:44.884-07:00No one deserves to be sexually assaulted.Under no ...No one deserves to be sexually assaulted.Under no conditions can rape be justified,regardless.<br />He are a couple of "light" posts:<br /><br />http://henryik2009.wordpress.com/2011/02/08/nigeria-nollywoodthe-death-of-nigerian-television/<br /><br />and <br /><br />http://henryik2009.wordpress.com/2011/02/04/nigeria-nollywood-update/<br />ha ha ha ....henrynoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1437272348957455996.post-25979793457829382942011-04-16T19:51:02.361-07:002011-04-16T19:51:02.361-07:00No matter the gender or the dressing, no one deser...No matter the gender or the dressing, no one deserves to be raped, full stop.Mynehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07595087387069634003noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1437272348957455996.post-46505977467919272592011-04-16T16:47:47.308-07:002011-04-16T16:47:47.308-07:00no one deserves to be assaulted
sexually or other...no one deserves to be assaulted<br /><br />sexually or otherwiseibiluvhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06357025487806887917noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1437272348957455996.post-21360722553011670612011-04-16T16:27:55.996-07:002011-04-16T16:27:55.996-07:00I don't care if the person is walking naked on...I don't care if the person is walking naked on the streets, no one (male or female) deserves to be sexually assaulted. So what if the clothes they're putting on is too revealing, na your body?! Which one be she/he's asking for it because of the way they're dressed? The fact remains that it's against the person's will and nothing can justify such an act. NOTHING!Tatababehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09599954307515336096noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1437272348957455996.post-56101908734386828832011-04-16T15:38:31.961-07:002011-04-16T15:38:31.961-07:00NO NO! Nobody deserves to be sexually assaulted. I...NO NO! Nobody deserves to be sexually assaulted. I actually don't like indecent dressing but women or men shouldn't be assaulted because of that.<br />Funny enough, many sexual assault cases aint due to indecent dressing or exposure of certain body parts.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05138130931988628398noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1437272348957455996.post-53227241267941157292011-04-16T14:29:48.636-07:002011-04-16T14:29:48.636-07:00In a few words, that is crap.
While I am all for ...In a few words, that is crap.<br /><br />While I am all for decent dressing, in some African cultures it is customary for a woman to go around topless. Should they all be raped then?Natural Nigerianhttp://www.naturalnigerian.comnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1437272348957455996.post-91952506205347619462011-04-16T11:25:26.518-07:002011-04-16T11:25:26.518-07:00no one deserves to b sexually assaulted, but unden...no one deserves to b sexually assaulted, but undeniably, men re almost never sexually assaulted. those who feel they shld b sexually assaulted may as well assault all d american pornstars n strip club dancers who leave those lifestyle.<br />This is not to say that i support provocative outfit by any chanceAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17761571871995656999noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1437272348957455996.post-51788415503758316532011-04-16T09:51:09.754-07:002011-04-16T09:51:09.754-07:00I disagree that someone deserves to be sexually as...I disagree that someone deserves to be sexually assaulted based on how they present their sexual parts. This is because it is against our constitution. If this is allowed, then we would have a situation that would go out of hand, as anybody could be assaulted on a flimsy excuse of being indecently dressed. Even in a red light zone, you don't go there to assault, rather you go there to bargainSurprisehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08035143859254838769noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1437272348957455996.post-58668553419502678522011-04-16T06:56:08.140-07:002011-04-16T06:56:08.140-07:00@wild boy, thanks for the mention & i concur.....@wild boy, thanks for the mention & i concur..to mena, my answer is; DISAGREE..scanty clothes is not an excuse to sexually assault any of the gender, simply 'comot eye'.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1437272348957455996.post-33608685065963882012011-04-15T23:04:55.599-07:002011-04-15T23:04:55.599-07:00There is a notion/motive before anyone at all sett...There is a notion/motive before anyone at all settles for an outfit. If you want to get at someone, go to his/her house and begin peeling your clothes off. <br />I made a similar remark on NG's blog as regards rape. There are speedos and thongs for men too, but you'll never see it on a man except he wants you to. How would women feel if men went around town with shorts as maaad as these Wild Boyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07166932730091626617noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1437272348957455996.post-16916929682212600132011-04-15T17:05:34.626-07:002011-04-15T17:05:34.626-07:00T.Notes,
You try humping/raping a woman because s...T.Notes,<br /><br />You try humping/raping a woman because she is skimpily dressed in the western world and see how quickly you will be thrown behind bars. Even worse, here in the US, women walk with guns, pocket knives and pepper sprays in their handbags. Try raping a woman you feel is skimpily dressed and you might just get brutally killed and find your lustful, sex addicted, possibly already Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1437272348957455996.post-55898804930826825032011-04-15T17:00:18.681-07:002011-04-15T17:00:18.681-07:00NO NO NO...... The way u present urself is a perso...NO NO NO...... The way u present urself is a personal thing, Morals and religion aside. No one in this world asks to be sexually assaulted.9jaFOODiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02591264337788562371noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1437272348957455996.post-87251562446637492962011-04-15T16:36:58.962-07:002011-04-15T16:36:58.962-07:00My answer is a resounding NO!! No matter how anyon...My answer is a resounding NO!! No matter how anyone dresses, whether you're a man or woman, you don't deserve to be forced into anything. Even in a court of law, a defense against rape is never 'but she was wearing skimpy stuff'. It's an infringement on someone's moral and civic rights. <br /><br />My answer is the same for men!<br /><br />AdiyaMuse Originshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13926790332096043066noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1437272348957455996.post-12304503611695621662011-04-15T16:09:23.062-07:002011-04-15T16:09:23.062-07:00My answer goes for men, women, trans, queer, every...My answer goes for men, women, trans, queer, everyone. <br /><br />No one deserves to be raped because of how they dress. We are each responsible for our actions. People should learn self-control. Remove your eyes or walk away if someone is indecently dressed.Prism of an Immigranthttps://www.blogger.com/profile/05290173306236432691noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1437272348957455996.post-77715900452592515942011-04-15T15:31:46.137-07:002011-04-15T15:31:46.137-07:00*clears throat properly* my answer will be a resou...*clears throat properly* my answer will be a resounding NO!!! no one asks to be sexually assaulted o. If a guy can go out naked and enjoy the breeze without fear of being sexually assaulted, then why should a woman not have the same right? and about self control, please I would like to give men more props than that, they are not dogs and should be able to prevent themselves from humping SitePaddyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02532659050651963285noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1437272348957455996.post-83041169225188729352011-04-15T15:31:06.868-07:002011-04-15T15:31:06.868-07:00Mena, we trivialize rape when we relate it to how ...Mena, we trivialize rape when we relate it to how a woman or man dresses. It has never been about that. If that were the case, in the West wherein people abandon their clothes in summer, we should be having the highest rape reports. It is not about clothes. it is not about appropriate or inappropriate naked flesh.<br />It is about power and control. It is about the individual who finds his kicks Gingerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10294850491382303707noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1437272348957455996.post-23402134467826459082011-04-15T15:24:19.667-07:002011-04-15T15:24:19.667-07:00No one deserves to be sexually assaulted. I dont s...No one deserves to be sexually assaulted. I dont support indecent dressing but that doesnt give anyone the leeway to assault someone else. And it depends on what indecent dressing is. For me, it is when someone wears something that fully reveals the parts that shouldnt be revealed(lol) but for a jehovah's witness, it may be someone that wears shorts or short dresses. Either way, no body kitkathttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06768682440881142726noreply@blogger.com