1.Warn your girl/ child never to sit on anyone’s laps no matter the situation including uncles.
2.Avoid getting dressed in front of your child once he/she is 2years old. Learn to excuse yourself.
3.If you have to hire a house-help please kindly take them for HIV screening to determine their HIV status, properly interview them and make up your mind to treat them well. Remember that the more you ill-treat your helps, the more your child will be ill-treated by the helps when you are not in. Some househelps don’t have to beat the children so you may not find scars but the child’s food may be mixed with spit, urine or feces and that would make the child sickly.
4.Never allow any adult refer to your new born as ‘my wife’ or ‘my husband’
5.Never tempt your husband with your younger female family members
6.Avoid unnecessary familiarity and make sure you take care of your husband by yourself lest you lead him into temptation.
7.Whenever your child goes out to play with friends make sure you look for a way to find out what kind of play they played together because young people now sexually abuse themselves.
8.Never force your child to visit any adult he or she is not comfortable with and also be observant if your child becomes too fond of a particular adult.
9.Once a very lively child suddenly becomes withdrawn you might need to patiently ask a lot of questions from your child
10.If you don’t teach your children about sex the society will teach them the wrong values.
11.It is always advisable you go through any new material like cartoons you just bought for them before they start seeing it themselves.
12.Teach your 6 year olds how to wash their private parts properly and warn them never to allow anyone touches those areas and that includes you.
13.Blacklist some materials you think could threaten the sanity of your child (that includes music, movies and musicians) and let them understand the value of standing out of the crowd.
14.Once your child complains about a particular person, don’t keep quiet about it. Take up the case and show them you can defend theM
Do you think it helps?? Have any more tips to add?
My daughter was taught to wash her vagina and bum when she was about 4 years old. She knows their real name and that only she should have access to that part of her body. She also knows that her mum is willing to listen to her no matter what, that regardless of what anyone tells her, that she should report any violations to her mum.
ReplyDeleteWe can only try and pray that they don't need to use this information for anything serious.
Good tips. I like the never sit on a stranger's laps tip. Parents should encourage their kids to talk to them about anything and everything.
ReplyDeleteGod bless you for these tips.They're so on point and i hope lots of people will get to see this.Will definitely use them when i have children.Thanks for sharing.
ReplyDeleteI've seen a lot of children being picked up from school by just drivers and even houseboys,where are their parents?? please trust no one with your children.
ReplyDelete9Ce tips wld make use of it wen i start havin children tanx
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