So I have been M.I.A. I went to India for about a month and a half and wow the experience is very different to every single thing I am used too. I will probably publish some of my experiences and photos here soon.
I hope you have all been very well. Any thing new? Please lets share.
By my thinking any one of us can be silently going through terrible ordeals in our lives thinking we are alone, and believing there is no solution, no way out, well there is a way out! All you need to do is speak out or write anonymously, someone somewhere will respond to you. You are never alone, certainly not in blogsville. So I was browsing blogsville when I came across some stories. They claim to be true life stories and the writers actually need our advice, love or just a silent prayer. I couldnt resist but bring some of them to them to my blog so readers who have gone though a similar experience can play agony aunt and give them solutions. Or you can even give them some tough love as well. They will be published from time to time in a series titled 'HELP', this is the seventh part.....You can findHelp 1 Help 2 Help 3 Help 4 Help 5 and Help 6 just by a click...
Help7.....
Her Story:
"....For months I had put off going to the doctors about a lump I found in my breast. As i walked into the consultants room the look on the doctors face said it all.
I had been to see the very same doctor two weeks previously for a core biopsy on a large lump in my right breast and a sample biopsy from my lymph nodes. For some reason i was hoping everything was going to be OK but it seemed it wasn't.
"You have Breast Cancer" he said in a very clinical manner...... No bed side manner at all. Everything i planned to say to him totally left my mind and i just sat there sobbing my eyes out. The thought of not being here for my children was the only thing i could think of. How do i tell them? How do i tell my parents? And how the hell do i tell my partner?..I did.
Current situation: Diagnosed with breast cancer two weeks ago.....today my partner of many years just leave me to deal with children.....but not after telling me i deserved to get cancer....
This is Heartwrenching! I am in literally in tears
what a douche bag! And thats all the time we can spend on him
ReplyDeletewhat stage are you? Do you have reliable support system preferably family? You need to focus your energy on the treatment you will be going through and for your children, you just need to be strong for them. How old are they?
A huge number of people have beaten cancer, read their stories and be inspired. There is no time, spare thoughts or energy to waste on that selfish partner. Do you have a support group around your area? Because that helps. You can do it! I am rooting for you
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