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Monday, 21 November 2011

SEE ME SEE TROUBLE MY PIPU....(PT 1)


Hello and Welcome to my first blog of the week. I am lucky to be alive to see the sky is so blue,even the heat of the North Central Nigeria is fine with me.

I hardly write about my personal life nowadays but so many things have happened and I dont know where to start. I just came out of the doors of death. This thing happened on the 7th and its just today 21 Nov that I am getting myself together. I thought it was dysmennorhea but it was much worse. I thank God I am alive

First my relocation was not very smooth, I moved from UK to Lagos and from there to FCT for work.

Work has not been smooth sailing I was thrown in shit creek without a paddle. There was no orientation period to introduce the new girl to who did what so I had to find things out myself. Well I found out there was a Queen BitchI.
Her reputation is all over the company. She is very very very rude. My CEO asked me to get a document for her for an international organisation and she shouted at me that she is not getting it.....The rumour mill is agog about her hold on my CEO bcos he did nothing. The same tatafo united says she had a tongue lashing from the CEO's wife due to the unusual hold she has on him. But thats by the way side, In another occassion, my contract reads I come at 9 and leave at 5 except where on expedient cases. So Iobeyed my contract till she queried me on why my timing I replied that its in my contract and walked out of the office. She used office politics to organise a HR meeting for us to know our roles and a million roles was added to mine. I just smiled as I love challenges and brought up when she screamed at me, she said she wasnt there to make friends, I told her that from where I come from I am used to people working as a team, and 'enemies' cant work as teams. The HR met with us seperately......

Then this relocation thing hasnt gone down well with me I have been ill from time to time. For the first bout of illnesses the Queen Bitch1 at first was nice but for the second bout of illnesses which happened this month 7th November where I believed I was at the door of death that she showed her through colours. I live alone and hardly have friends here and so when the illness hit i was alone, I was rolling on my bed, in tears. I couldnt tell my parents as I just left them (there was a public holiday) I told her and a male colleague at the office. The male colleague was worried. She ignored me and told the male colleague that what she says will not go down well with me....I went through all sorts of treatments at the hospital and finally had to go through an endoscopy to find out. I lost 2 kg painfully. Can you imagine I was just coming out of anaesthic when she called to rudely ask for some files. As life will have it soon after her call she started throwing up and stooling uncontrollably and had to go to the hospital. After then she called and called to pray for me.........see me see life..

Then at my home address in FCT there lives a lebanese Queen BitchII
who possibly suffers some sort of superiority complex by virtue her race or something because her very very rude and demeaning 'commandments' are just out of this world you would think she owned the place.
Well her 'dance with me' was when she complained to someone to complain to someone to tell someone to tell me that I leave my gen on all night that it affects her. (Did that like twice) I told the chain of people that Queen B's Gen is directly under my window and blows fumes into my bathroom and toilet. So she should come and relocate that generator sharply. She said through her chains of people that her gen was there all the while and besides its a silent gen. Er well I quickly told the chains of people that first of all it makes just as much as mine, second of all, AS FATE WILL HAVE IT, I live there now so she should remove it. She didnt, and luckily the electric power situation is much better here in FCT but when its not, I use my gen as and when I deem fit and she still blasts her gen fumes into my bath as well. So we were at a crossroad till the landlord came and decided to build a general generator house.. Queen Bitch II complained that the generator house was too near her window and the fumes nd the noise will disturb her. Mind you its not near her window at all, especially not in the way hers was directly under my window. Well landlord's word stays she is free to leave when her contract expires.

I still say see me see life abi how una see am?

Then my mum and settle down with man issues will be written down later in part 2


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32 comments:

HoneyDame said...

O Boye!!! u definitely have had your hands full!
That office queen....what's her deal?!

Luciano said...

sorry bout ur health. some ppl can just be that way, something is definitely eating them up and they decided to take it out on other people. The office queen is a real case, i suggest yu ignore her

grace said...

omdays sorry about your health, first time here just saw ur comment on linda's blog and decided to check ur blog :) hope the illness was properly diagnosed and treated? is there no other way you can avoid this office queen? and for that lebanese queen let her just leave the house and the country altogether tcheww i've heard of the way they treat nigerians with so much contempt!! anyways you a brave move to move back and i would be doing same in may but if things dont work out well i would prolly return to UK, take care.

grace said...

typos!
made* in btw you and a
decision* in place of first move

Toinlicious said...

what is wrong with d world with all the cruella bitches anyway?

Lmao bitch I quickly prayed for you wen karma showed up hehehe u gotta love karma

J.Lo Vs. Dencia- Who Wore It Best? said...

Dot, I think it's time for you to pack your bags and relocate right back to where you relocated from.

Nigeris is not worth dying for.

Anonymous said...

Hi, are those their photos? If so, they can sue you o.

The Queen bitch na way o. You have to play it cool or risk losing your job.

They are everywhere. What of King Brutes?

9jaFOODie said...

Sorry dear :( God is your strenght.

Anonymous said...

Annon 21 November 2011 06:59
Those are not the pictures of the biatches Mena is talking about. Those are just random pictures from the internet. The black girl in the pic reminds me of those nasty akata women with attitude problems that one has to unfortunately deal with when one lives in the states. The white woman looks like those druggies I see here in the states.

Anonymous said...

Mena,

Sorry to hear that you were sick. I did not even know that you moved to Naija. My family is also pestering me to move back but I will keep praying until God asks me to move. What are all those lebanese doing in Nigeria anyways? when I was growing up in Naija between the mid eighties and nineties, there were no lebanese or chinese in Abuja. The reason these foreigners have the nerve to talk shit is because many bloody Nigerians worship people with pale skin. Nigerians will support a foreigner over a fellow Nigerian. There is no solidarity amongst Nigerians. Even here abroad, same problem. If I have to take crap from arabs and whites in my own home country then I am better of staying abroad. Atleast, I can be assured of consistent light, access to healthcare and other little things which I currently take for granted. Like another poster said, if things do not work out, move back to the UK sharp-sharp. I have long known that Nigerians can be so rude even though we constantly preach respect. Hope you feel better and pray that God takes you out of that negative work environment.

Motivational quotes said...

You said it better ma'am Toinlicious

Legendkid@ Alert! UNIBEN Fake website steal money from prospective students said...

You said it better ma'am Toinlicious

Ceejay@ Browse free with your phone said...

God still care. And you will see.

DIDI said...

So Sorry about the sickness,plz try ignore her..

HOMEMADE ENTERTAINMENT said...

pele dear,they got nothing on u

Mena UkodoisReady said...

@HoneyDame: I dont know if its bcos she rumoured to be doing the CEO but she often mistakes herself for the CEO!!

@Luciano: Thanks oh. We are frenemies now so at least we can work together


@Grace& Anon 21 November 2011 12:17

: thanks for visiting. :D Lebanese are notorious in Nigeria and I must say in almost every country in the first world but its in Nigeria where they see people to suck up to them that they feeel superior. Absolutely not to someone like me. Also I came to see what little thing I can do for my country beforeoh since I criticise it so much. Only to see its more complex than the eyes can see.

@Toinlicios: Thanks for visiting..LOL Abi God works in mysterious ways. There she was thinking I was faking until she caught her own. Said it was food poisioning. see life? we have to be very very careful how we treat people

J-lo vs Dencia: thanks or visiting and apologies for shortening your name. Ehen but if we dont come back even for 6 months to try and change things no matter how little how do we have the right to criticize it? na wa oh but thanks if its more health damaging then I may relocate o.

9jfoodie, Didi and Homemande: thanks for Caring xxx

Motivational Quotes&Legend Kid: thanks for not just visiting but taking the time to read through comments

@anonymous very random pictures.lol

Thanks for the comments everyone.. Almost choked on my coffee on

" Those are not the pictures of the biatches Mena is talking about. Those are just random pictures from the internet. The black girl in the pic reminds me of those nasty akata women with attitude problems that one has to unfortunately deal with when one lives in the states. The white woman looks like those druggies I see here in the states."

LOOOL@ anonymous 21 November 2011 11:54

Thanks for the comments everyone.. wworking on part 2 but when you work 8am to 10pm, how do you really write? Holy spirit take control

Mena UkodoisReady said...

@HoneyDame: I dont know if its bcos she rumoured to be doing the CEO but she often mistakes herself for the CEO!!

@Luciano: Thanks oh. We are frenemies now so at least we can work together


@Grace& Anon 21 November 2011 12:17

: thanks for visiting. :D Lebanese are notorious in Nigeria and I must say in almost every country in the first world but its in Nigeria where they see people to suck up to them that they feeel superior. Absolutely not to someone like me. Also I came to see what little thing I can do for my country beforeoh since I criticise it so much. Only to see its more complex than the eyes can see.

@Toinlicios: Thanks for visiting..LOL Abi God works in mysterious ways. There she was thinking I was faking until she caught her own. Said it was food poisioning. see life? we have to be very very careful how we treat people

J-lo vs Dencia: thanks or visiting and apologies for shortening your name. Ehen but if we dont come back even for 6 months to try and change things no matter how little how do we have the right to criticize it? na wa oh but thanks if its more health damaging then I may relocate o.

9jfoodie, Didi and Homemande: thanks for Caring xxx

Motivational Quotes&Legend Kid: thanks for not just visiting but taking the time to read through comments

@anonymous very random pictures.lol

Thanks for the comments everyone.. Almost choked on my coffee on

" Those are not the pictures of the biatches Mena is talking about. Those are just random pictures from the internet. The black girl in the pic reminds me of those nasty akata women with attitude problems that one has to unfortunately deal with when one lives in the states. The white woman looks like those druggies I see here in the states."

LOOOL@ anonymous 21 November 2011 11:54

Thanks for the comments everyone.. wworking on part 2 but when you work 8am to 10pm, how do you really write? Holy spirit take control

A-9ja-Great said...

Hmmmmm,i really hate working under an hostile environment or living in it.You really are strong and if you can just continue to be.As for your Lebanese (no be even better oyinbo sef)bitch,just ignore her jare,she's not paying your rent or feeding you in anyway so she can burn.

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Kanyinulia said...

sorry about ur health....ope those pics aint really those bitches pics

Muse Origins said...

Lol!! See you see life oh. Just still have fun abeg, don't let them get you down

Adiya
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Mena UkodoisReady said...

@ A 9ja great: Thanks for visiting and thanks for the words of comfort my dear. One has seen so much in life. I just feel sometimes that Angels are on guard with my life or someone is seriously praying for me somewhere because I really cant write all of it..As for that one, dont even mind her, she is lucky things have been settled else she for kuku tie herself to my generator (lols)

@ Anon 23 nov 00.28. Its an urban slang. Thanks for the tip on resettin the nokia symbian phone, if i ever get one i will visit the site

@ Anon 23 nov 00.37: All those kind words for this typo ridden blog. Gee thanx for visiting and for the compliments and the link

@Muse Origins/ Adiya: thank you. God really is with me cus personally I cant fittu shoutu and i nottu send again. LOL. thanks my sis.

@J: Aww thanks, I have met about a couple of friends with good heart Tee has a good heart so its not so bad anymore but thank you and God bless...

@Kanyinulia: thanks for the add, I am following you too..thanks for visiting and your caring words too,yes I am much better now. off to check out your blog

thanks everyone xxxx

Ginger said...

Are you now at peace with Oga madam? na wa. Wonder why women just cant escape the bitch boss stereotype.

Hope you are much better now.

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